“…So you see this money-orientation also comes from childhood. From childhood if you talk of all these things – money-orientation – children also know this and they talk like that. There are many other things for children we should just avoid. Don’t allow them to go near all such things which are creating money-orientation, because that is the problem of today, that everywhere... (more...)
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Shri Mataji: You have to serve them, but they should not exploit you
September 2nd, 2009 | No Comments »“…This is one thing one has to learn about children, you have to serve them. Really, when they are young you have to serve them, pay attention to them, but they should not exploit. Like your child, you remember, when he was travelling with me in the train I thought he was very demanding. All the time the mother had to talk to him, tell him some stories, do this. ... (more...)
Shri Mataji: Too much love spoils the child
September 2nd, 2009 | No Comments »“…All the time they think you can be taken advantage of. So love is looking after them, massaging, servicing – I mean kindliness and also keeping them to yourself. They can sleep with you, all this is all right. But too much love is sort of spoiling, they want to do what they like, they want to get up whenever they feel like, they want to spoil everything. They should not be allowed... (more...)
Shri Mataji: Move with the instruction from the spirit
September 2nd, 2009 | No Comments »“…We should not love them in a way that they don’t respect you or they don’t listen to you and they should not think that they can convince you and justify themselves. In this way by giving them blind love we spoil them and put them on a wrong direction. In the same way by being too strict with them we make our children such that they... (more...)
