Posts Tagged ‘Care’

Shri Mataji: Do not shout, get angry or hurry up:

“The parent’s behavior is extremely important for the children. Before the children you should not shout, you should not hurry up, you should not get angry. So the child becomes quieter. If the child is not a quiet child then understand something is wrong with you. Definitely with the parents, something wrong, maybe the Nabhi, in the stomach, maybe on the Swadisthana that the child is all... (more...)


Shri Mataji: Children should not be fusy about food

‘…Now another thing is that about food and all that, children should be taught from childhood not to be very fussy about food because if you fuss about their food then children become fussy. But if you do not fuss, then children can eat whatever you give them. But of course the food should be good, on that I am very particular, that the food , taste and all that should be good. But it doesn’t... (more...)


Shri Mataji: In India we do not scold our children

“…In India we do not scold our children as you do in the West. If we have to scold our children, we use language which makes them honourable: Damle Sahib has put on a kurta (pyjama) so, ‘You are looking like Shivaji Maharaj. Welcome Shivaji Maharaj’. We should speak in such respectful language so that they would not get scared. Correction, if it is to be done, we used to do this way;... (more...)


Shri Mataji: You should never have two views

“…So when you are dealing with your children, you should be combined together in the same manner. You should never have two views. Should be: sit down, discuss with each other how we are going to improve the children, this is what we notice. You should never support your child if he is doing wrong. You should in no way support. If any Sahaja Yogi says that this is wrong, then you must take... (more...)


Shri Mataji: No parents should feel bad if somebody corrects the child

“…Now, if another person comes and tells about the child, that this child has done, immediately he (Indian parents) will scold the child. He will never get angry with another person: “Why did you say about my child?“. But thank him and thank God you have told me because he might be spoiled more. So this is another thing I want to tell you very frankly, that no parents should... (more...)