“…Now, I have seen that people cuddle their children too much in this country. And that’s a very wrong thing to do, all the time carry the child on your lap, carry the child on you, this thing. It’s too much. If you overdo it you will find the same children will hate you. Because in childhood they develop a sensation that they are overdoing... (more...)
Posts Tagged ‘Care’
Shri Mataji: Too much love spoils the child
September 2nd, 2009 | No Comments »“…All the time they think you can be taken advantage of. So love is looking after them, massaging, servicing – I mean kindliness and also keeping them to yourself. They can sleep with you, all this is all right. But too much love is sort of spoiling, they want to do what they like, they want to get up whenever they feel like, they want to spoil everything. They should not be allowed... (more...)
Shri Mataji: Tell them some stories
September 1st, 2009 | No Comments »“… And you see if any of your children are there you have to tell them some stories. I’ll tell you how. Some children have a habit of beating others or doing something. Then you said,” Now if you beat then a tail comes out of your bottom, like that you see like a doggy and something like that.” And they believe it. They believe it. Next day they’ll ask: “Is... (more...)
Shri Mataji: Take time for the children
September 1st, 2009 | No Comments »“…Normally right-sided people don’t get children. Normally. They’re over right-sided. Then even they get children. But they are really not liked by the children, because they have no time for children. They, all the time, are very strict with the children, they shout at them, shout at them, they don’t know how to handle the children. Or they are over-indulgent, because... (more...)
Shri Mataji: The children should be handled very carefully and with love
August 31st, 2009 | No Comments »“… My eternal love flows towards you all and I keep on telling you things and making you understand but you have not got hurt neither you got spoiled. The reason is because it is done with integrated knowledge. If the children know that you love them with full heart then even one scolding is enough but instead if you always keep on scolding them then they think that it is your habit to... (more...)
